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You will see a lot of program's today promoting how to have your best possible life. I have yet to see one of them address how underlying trauma affects your ability to sustain the practices they recommend. The effects of developmental trauma is not always easy to see.
The proof is are you happy with your current results? Look at your relationship, if you are in one. Look at how excited you feel day-to-day? Do you like what you see when you look in the mirror? How about your financial well being? Are you in a career that you are passionate about? Are you motivated to take care of your body?
Rarely, have I found a person that didn't have some kind of developmental trauma. Here are examples in case you are wondering what I mean:
What I have found is the recommended solutions by the “guru’s” don't address an underlying issue that causes you to return to your old ways - causing you to wonder why nothing seems to work. You start with good intentions. You do everything they tell you to do. You create a "system" to make sure you follow through. Then suddenly, some impulse or distraction redirects you. It could be another method or framework that you imagine might get you there faster. So you ping to another program. As you look back over the years, it's easy to see something has gone wrong and regret sinks in. The challenge though, after so many trial runs, is to believe anything is more than just another "program or framework" to entice you. Now you don't even trust yourself to know the difference.
I finally learned how to put a stop to the nonsense and I want to share that with you today.
A couple years ago, I went back and reviewed hundreds of sessions I had with clients. After highlighting and cataloguing hundreds of remarks and role plays we practiced, I saw a common thread amongst the sessions where clients reported breakthrough success. I then filmed lessons for each of the practices and principles I discovered. You can now access this information below.
The goal of the program is to give you the essential tools to make you aware of any developmental trauma that is still interfering with your success today. As you practice the lessons, you will begin to see the habits, patterns, and beliefs that have always been there, right under your nose. I will then show you how to identify them and what to change to get a better result.
And I won't sugar coat this for marketing reasons. Your coping mechanisms and beliefs get modified the more you practice. Feel free to send me an email at [email protected] if you have any questions.
The first part of the program orients you on the basics of trauma. It’s like having a map of the terrain so you can plot your course. You will learn the language of trauma so you can articulate your experience and stay excited about the practices in part two and three that begin the transformation process. Learning these basics will be like learning the A,B,C’s in grade school. Once you understand them, you will have more hope and confidence moving forward. The goal of this part of the program is to assist you to move forward with confidence and trust in the process and where it is taking you. Get ready to feel the excitement of having your life back.
One of the fastest ways to heal trauma is to bring to light the beliefs, decisions, and things you do that keep it active and unresolved in your body. Trauma is stored in your implicit memory system. This memory system is on autopilot. You have emotional energy, assumptions, beliefs and coping mechanism stuck there. In part two of the Trauma Release Accelerator, you will learn several ways to identify these patterns so you can interrupt them and finally find resolution. My Tibetan teacher used to tell me, “You need to plug the holes in your leaky bucket.” Good advise as I look back 25 years later. Together, in this program we will repair the leaky bucket!
In this section of the Trauma Release Accelerator, you will learn a multitude of new skills that will consistently give you relief. Over time, and with regular practice, you will soon feel the relief that comes from these practices. One of my teachers, Dr. Peter Levine, says, “Good trauma therapy is when the client is feeling better and they don’t even know how it happened.” The practices in this section, will slowly discharge the pent-up energy in your nervous system. As this happens you’ll organically begin to see life from a new lens, end the coping patterns, and change your beliefs about the world permanently. Then you start getting better results without so much effort.
Creator of the TRA-10 Model
Trauma is about energy stuck in the nervous system NOT the event. When you release the “stuck” energy, your body begins to self regulate and feel safe again. Only then, can you achieve a fulfilled life.
If you are a human being you are vulnerable to trauma. In particular, early life or developmental trauma is insidious. Most people who have been traumatized in life had issues happen to them so early in life they don’t know what it is like to be without it. I was one of those people.
Fortunately I had the awareness that something was wrong and continually sought out help. By the time I was in my late 20’s I knew life was way harder than it needed to be. But I was at a loss to know how to correct it. But I stayed open. Always learning. Always growing. By the time I was 35 I had had enough. My mother passed away and I went into post traumatic stress.
This is when I started to realize there was something very powerful about the unconscious memory system in our bodies. I sought out to understand how it worked. Then in 2004, I had another severe case of PTSD after an unexpected break-up. This is when I learned and started practicing Somatic Experiencing. A unique process for releasing trauma from the body. It changed my life. Over the next few years, I got certified as a practitioner. Many of the tools you will learn in the TRA-10 process came from this training along with intense studies on attachment theory and neurological science.
When Harry & I returned from a two month trip in South East Asia we were dealing with such deep, old issues that had surfaced for us, we were thinking about going our separate ways. Before doing that though, we agreed to having a session with Ed to see if we could resolve our challenges. It was absolutely amazing! In one session we were able to feel and release inner conflict, find resolution and fall in love again with a lot of ease and compassion. We are very grateful to Ed for sharing his skills with us & helping us to see what was most important to us.
Part 1: Trauma Basics
Part 2: Portal To The Unconscious Mind
Part 3: Loosening The Grip
Integrate each video with a weekly prep email describing the situation and how to apply what will be in the next video. It tees up the next lesson in a way you are eager to watch, practice the lesson, and know how to apply it. Each week you’ll get a specifically designed email to open the lesson, offer insights, and help you frame up how to think about the video as you work your way through it. It will keep you motivated and offer you timely insights. ($150 Value)
Along with each video and emails you will have PDF worksheet to follow for each exercise. It will help you to have recorded notes of what is working and what you need help on. ($100 Value)
There is a feedback button on every video-lesson page that keeps me informed and a pulse on what is the program needs further explanation. I regularly monitor this feedback and when needed will offer weekly on-line sessions to clarify concepts, exercises, or how to handle specific situations. (no charge)
For the time being I am offering lifetime updates to the Trauma Release Accelerator. Neuroscience, trauma research, attachment theory, other up-and-coming psychological models and my own insights continue to refine my knowledge of the principles and I want to continue to share them with you. It is one of my life goals to create a program that has the potential to change the world. The Trauma Release Accelerator or TRA-10 System is the foundation of that. ($300 Value)
One of the biggest challenges with integrating any new information is how our brains are wired to like patterns. *Until you experience something you will not know if your pattern is promoting your learning or resisting learning.* What we know for sure in brain science is our brains can change but you must give it a reason. Learning from others is another way to embody the TRA-10 concepts. I encourage you to utilize this private group and save yourself a lot of time and money. ($300 Yearly Value)
If you need laser precision into what may be holding you back personally or professionally, you will not find anyone better than Ed. He is compassionately unrelenting in his pursuit of your sou's best expression of your authentic self. And is willing to challenge ego as needed. Highly recommended.
I want you to feel secure that if you attend the classes and do the exercises with me, you’re going to get your life back on track. The point of all of this is to move the needle of your life and sense of purpose.
And you will. But I also have a secure guarantee, just in case you need a little more peace of mind...
Here’s my guarantee: If you go through the Trauma Relief Accelerator course, attend your classes and do your homework, and at the end – 30 days later, you don’t feel like you got immense value, just show me all your homework and exercises so I know you went through the program — and I’ll happily refund your entire tuition and give you all your money back.
In addition to giving your money back, I will let you you keep the entire Trauma Relief Accelerator program, with all of my proven tool, plus all bonuses, completely free… my gift to you just for giving it a try.
Why would I offer a guarantee this strong, and let you go through the entire course at my risk?
Because I want to remove all excuses your mind can come up with. I personally know the gravity of our unconscious mind pulling at us to stay the same and not venture into uncharted waters. So, for some, it can seem like an uneasy risk. That's the mind at work. It predictably doesn't like change. You have to transcend that way of thinking and lean into a leap of faith. Your commitment is what will make this program successful and now that is all that is required.
I can’t think of a more fair and reasonable offer than that.
I have worked extensively with Ed at various points in my life and his coaching is absolutely incredible!!! My life literally has transformed with his work and I use the tools and strategies I have learned from him on a daily basis to better and more consciously navigate my life, its decisions, and relationships.
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Who Is Ed
Ed Ferrigan has a Masters in psychology from Antioch University, is certified as a Co-Active Coach From The Coaches Training Institute, certified as a Family Constellation Facilitator, certified in The Hendricks Body Centered and Conscious Relationships Program, and has the highest designation in the Peter Levine's Somatic Experiencing Trauma Healing Process. Has worked with thousands of happy clients over the past 23 years...
Now you may be wondering…
This is a good question. I've done my very best to select and assemble 23+ years of research and field testing with hundreds of traumatized people I’ve worked into a system that is easy to see the results.
And there are some other indicators that I think create a solid container for trusting this process...
Sometimes people are just not ready. I have found that some people are coerced into coming to therapy and unfortunately that never works. There is often not enough motivation or understanding of the value.
You see, in the past when they reached out they got slammed so why would they want to reach out now?
It can be terrifying for people who got "less than adequate support" over-and over-again when they were little to reach out later in life. It can literally seem like a life-or-death choice.
I get it. I was one of those people. I tip-toed into therapy.
Most people that could use the help need a lot of motivation to overcome the beliefs they acquired when they needed help early on. Often, there is zero trust in others. (This is a perfect example of how your unconscious motivates you out of your awareness.)
There are certain signs of people who won't make it in any program. (Continuous excuses, lack of commitment, avoidance, no follow-through)
If you relate strongly to any of the points below, consider it may be a challenge for you to succeed - even though you may have a "hint" of desire...
Here are some signs to pay attention to...
"Our unconscious or implicit memory system acts like a sheep dog, nipping at our heels, trying to guide us based on stuff that happened 40 years ago…" Ed Ferrigan
During times of stress, healthy communication can be next to impossible because habituated relationship patterns (our implicit memory) are not very accurate in the way they assess any given situation…
These "habits" are related to things that happened to us when we were little tots running around trying to decide how to fit in…
Our brains drew conclusions and developed all the needed patterns to guarantee our survival. We are like survival machines when we are tiny. It's part of our development and we do it well.
And most of these destructive patterns are out of our awareness…but the results show they exists.
"...we did not have to spend hours upon hours hashing and rehashing situations. We were able to get to the heart of the matter quickly and move forward. I gained the self-confidence to finally speak my truth and work toward having the marriage I had always envisioned. Ed's coaching style is genuine, practical, and very effective."
"For the first time since I was a child I was able to be around certain people without feeling uncomfortable or angry. His amazing coaching process led me to recognize the core of the problem and then quickly helped me dissolve any discomfort and distrust. Since our session, I have been able to immediately recognize repetitive and destructive behaviors and eliminate them. "
Ed is truly authentic and a gifted intuitive. The combination of somatic experiencing with the family constellation process creates an incredibly safe and sacred space for transformative healing. I experienced a profound shift at a very deep level and am thrilled to welcome back my life energy!
So, much of my life I have been defensive and sometimes selfish and lacked close emotional connections with others. Ed's guidance has given me the ability to understand my unconscious behavior and the effect it can have on me, my kids, and my wife. I highly recommend Ed's relationship coaching for any man wanting to have more enriching relationships with his spouse and children.
What I like about coaching with Ed is: It's very action oriented and not just talk about problems. Ed also guides me to build my problem solving abilities that will last me a lifetime. Great investment in myself!
I'm inspired by the Intentional Agreement Learning Module and the critical importance of Agreements. Instantly I am reminded of areas where this will make so many relationships and situations "cleaner", clearer, more effective and authentic. Honestly, Ed, this is really powerful. Even with my teenaged kids I see so many applications I will implement with renewed vigor.
My heart wishes you goodness in life and I look forward to seeing you in the program.
P.S. If you really want the program but cannot afford the upfront amount please send me an email at [email protected] and I'll consider working out a payment plan.