Why We Argue and Fight?To understand the real reason couples argue and fight you’ll need to know about early life development. (NOTE: Much of I will be talking about here relates very closely to developmental trauma for some people. Oprah recently did an episode with 60-Minutes…you can find it here.)From the minute you are born […]
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Sometimes decision makers (all of us) need a way to assess a decision in a quick fashion when the stakes are high but we don’t have time. Forcefield analysis is such a tool. In this article we will define what force field analysis is, and look at the top 5 ways to use it. What is […]
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Sorting out complex decisions can be very rewarding and educational. Recently I was working with a client in my executive coaching practice. He was struggling between two job possibilities: the current temporary position that could possibly turn into a full time position or a longer term position with another company. On the surface this may seem […]
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Great Decisions Software Training: In this video I will show you how to use the Force Field Analysis or Pro’s and Con’s Tool. You will find this tool is excellent when you are thinking through decisions that have a lot of variables.Enter your text here… This is a decision making technique w. Fortunately, you can now have […]
Continue readingGreat Decisions Training: To use Great Decisions Software to it’s full extent, you will want to come up with all the variables of each decision you will make. This may require some research unless you are clear what variables are already most important to you. For example, let’s say you are interested in purchasing an adjustable […]
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There is a comment I’ve been hearing a lot lately and it has to do with being stuck and feeling challenged. And that comment is “I can do it alone” or “I have all the answers inside of me. I don’t need others to guide me…” I’m curious where that belief comes from and what you think […]
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Today I’m going to talk about listening skills and want to give you a couple of tips. Those who are newly in here in a brand new relationship or have been in a relationship for a long time. This is especially helpful for men. So here’s what the tip is. Listening is your gateway to building trust […]
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