Category Archives for Communication

The Ultimate Guide to End Arguing And Fighting

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Why We Argue and Fight?To understand the real reason couples argue and fight you’ll want to know about what happens to our brains in the first few years of life. (NOTE: Don’t worry I’ll make it simple to understand so you can finally get a handle on this – permanently. Check out the 60–Minutes special […]

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The Myth and Danger of Having a “Doing it Alone” Mindset

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There is a comment I’ve been hearing a lot lately and it has to do with being stuck and feeling challenged.  And that comment is “I can do it alone” or “I have all the answers inside of me. I don’t need others to guide me…” I’m curious where that belief comes from and what you think […]

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Couples Listening Skills – Listening Filters #1

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Today I’m going to talk about listening skills and want to give you a couple of tips. Those who are newly in here in a brand new relationship or have been in a relationship for a long time.  This is especially helpful for men. So here’s what the tip is.  Listening is your gateway to building trust […]

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5 Steps To End Fighting And Arguing

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In the 5 Steps To End Fighting And Arguing we will address the #2 killer of all relationships: Fighting and Arguing. Multiple researchers cite that the number two reason people leave relationships is because of regular bouts of arguing and fighting. In this article we will look at 5 steps you can start using immediately […]

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How To Not Take Things Personally

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Not taking things personally is a common issue for many clients and people who responded to previous relationship surveys. In this article I will discuss what you need to do to not take things personally when things come up between you and your partner. While a book could be written on the subject I will […]

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Why Do You Keep Repeating The Same Old Argument?

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Why Do You Or Your Partner Keep Repeating The Same Old Argument?“One day while arguing with my ex-wife I realized that not only were we arguing for the hundredth time we were arguing about the same thing…”Gay Hendricks – The Relationship SolutionEver wonder why you and your partner-relative-friend keep repeating the same old argument? In this […]

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More Intimacy In Relationship

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I don’t know anyone who would not want more intimacy in relationship. I often write (and preach…) about how our unconscious is running the show most of the time.Understanding how it is constantly nipping at your heals reveals a hidden secret to making relationship work better.One evening while in dance class dancing with my partner […]

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